Turn Heartbreak Into Your Greatest Catalyst for Growth
If you're ready to stop feeling stuck and start transforming your breakup into a breakthrough, this 12-week program is your guide to rediscovering yourself and creating a life you love.
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Is Heartbreak Holding You Back?
Breakups can feel like emotional earthquakes. They don’t just shake your world—they leave you questioning who you are and what you believe about love.
Let me ask you:
Are you stuck replaying painful moments, endlessly analyzing what went wrong?
Do you feel overwhelmed by a mix of sadness, anger, and confusion, unsure of how to move forward?
Are you struggling to let go, feeling trapped in the past and unsure how to rebuild trust in yourself or others?
Do you worry you’ll repeat the same patterns, or wonder if you’ll ever feel confident in love again?
Are you questioning your worth, wondering if you’ll ever find the relationship you truly deserve?
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If you’re nodding your head, know this: you’re not alone. These feelings are real, they’re valid—but they don’t have to define you or be your forever. Heartbreak isn’t the end. It can be the beginning of your greatest transformation.
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Why Heartbreak Feels So Overwhelming
I know how disorienting and overwhelming life feels after a breakup.
Pouring your heart
Pouring your heart out to friends, hoping their advice will give you clarity.
replaying every moment
Replaying every moment in your mind, searching for what went wrong.
Reading self-help books
Reading self-help books and watching endless advice videos, desperate for answers.
Filling every moment
Filling every moment of your day to avoid the silence and the pain.
Throwing yourself in work
Throwing yourself into work or other distractions to escape the heaviness.
scrolling through social media
Scrolling through social media, comparing your life to others, and feeling even more lost.
avoiding people & places
Avoiding places, people, or memories that remind you of your ex, yet still feeling haunted by them.
telling yourself to "move on"
Telling yourself to “move on” while secretly wondering if you ever will.
And yet, the pain still lingers.
The patterns resurface. The same questions—Why wasn’t I enough? Will I ever feel whole again? What now?—remain unanswered. Breakups don’t just end relationships; they challenge your sense of self, your worth, and your vision for the future.
But here’s the truth: heartbreak doesn’t have to define you.
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I’ve Been There Too and There’s a Way Forward
I know how hard it is to find your footing after a breakup. You’ve probably tried everything:
I get it. After my own painful divorce, I felt lost. But through that heartbreak, I found something I never expected: transformation. I rebuilt my confidence, rediscovered my worth, and created a life I love.
Now, I want to help you do the same.
Introducing The Breakthrough Experience
The Breakthrough Experience is a 12-week program designed to guide you from heartbreak to healing, and ultimately, to growth. Inspired by my new book, Break Up on Purpose, this program combines everything I’ve learned, both personally and professionally into a step-by-step roadmap for transformation.
Here’s how it will help you:
Pouring your heart
Navigate the stages of grief, let go of emotional baggage, and find closure within yourself.
Identify and Break Patterns
Understand unhealthy relationship dynamics and set new standards for the connections you deserve.
Rebuild Confidence and Self-Worth
Break free from self-blame, rediscover your identity, and create a strong foundation of self-love.
Create a Vision for Your Future
Define what you truly want from life and relationships and take actionable steps to build it.
Here’s Exactly What You’ll Get
When you join The Breakthrough Experience, you’re not just signing up for a program—you’re investing in a comprehensive, life-changing toolkit to guide you through healing and transformation. Here’s everything that’s included:
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weekly live group coaching with me
Every week, we’ll meet on Zoom for a live session where I’ll personally guide you through the journey.
What to expect:
I’ll dive deep into the week’s module, share actionable insights, and answer your most pressing questions.
These aren’t just lectures—they’re interactive, supportive spaces where you’ll feel seen and understood.
You’ll leave each session with clear next steps, feeling motivated and empowered to take action.
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12 Transformative Modules
Each week is carefully crafted to tackle a specific aspect of your healing journey.
Topics include:
Rebuilding confidence, managing triggers, redefining love, and creating healthy boundaries.
Every module is designed to help you make tangible progress, with tools and strategies you can apply immediately to your life.
By the end of 12 weeks, you’ll have a roadmap to move from heartbreak to breakthrough.
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Exclusive Tools and Exercises
This program is all about implementation. You’ll get access to a variety of tools to help you integrate what you’re learning:
Journaling Prompts:
Reflect on your emotions, uncover patterns, and gain clarity about your next steps.
Guided Meditations:
Calm your mind, center yourself, and create space for healing.
Practical Activities:
From boundary-setting templates to self-discovery exercises, these activities are designed to produce real results.
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A Supportive Community
Healing doesn’t have to happen in isolation. You’ll be part of a vibrant community of like-minded individuals who are on the same journey.
What you’ll gain:
A safe space to share your story, celebrate your wins, and navigate challenges together.
Accountability partners who will keep you motivated and inspired.
The understanding and encouragement that come from people who truly get what you’re going through.
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Lifetime Access to Program Materials
Your transformation doesn’t end when the program does.
What to expect:
You’ll have lifetime access to all the program recordings, exercises, and resources.
Need a refresher on a specific module or activity? You can revisit it anytime to reinforce your growth.
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Your Bonus: 1-Year Free Membership to the Single On Purpose App
As part of The Breakthrough Experience, you’ll receive a free 1-year membership to my Single On Purpose app (a $240 value). This bonus is designed to deepen your healing journey and provide ongoing support:
Expert Guidance:
Access to my team of therapists, coaches, and specialized breathwork sessions to help you stay grounded and grow.
Exclusive Resources:
Content, events, and tools tailored to help you continue building the life and relationships you deserve.
A Like-Minded Community:
Connect with other singles who are committed to their personal growth and building stronger relationships with themselves.
The 12-Week Journey: The Breakthrough Experience Course Curriculum
Week 1: Setting the Foundation for Healing
You’ll walk away with a new perspective on your breakup, a guided framework for processing your emotions, and a clear starting point for transformation.
Week 2: Identifying Your Breakup Type
You’ll gain clarity on your breakup story, recognize hidden emotions and patterns, and get personalized exercises to accelerate your healing.
Week 3: Grieving and Emotional Regulation
You’ll develop emotional mastery, process your grief without feeling stuck, and learn how to calm your mind and body in moments of overwhelm.
Week 4: Releasing Self-Blame & Rewriting Your Story
You’ll finally let go of past regrets, gain radical self-compassion, and see your breakup not as a failure, but as a necessary step toward growth.
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Week 5: Understanding Patterns & Red Flags
You’ll connect the dots between your past relationships, recognize warning signs early, and build a roadmap for healthier future relationships.
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Week 6: Healing Attachment Wounds
You’ll understand your relational blueprint, gain tools for emotional security, and start breaking old patterns that no longer serve you.
Week 7: Rebuilding Confidence & Self-Worth
You’ll feel stronger, more confident, and more self-assured—ready to move forward without needing validation from someone else.
Week 8: Navigating Triggers & Emotional Resilience
You’ll learn how to handle your emotions with strength, feel less controlled by external situations, and move forward with calm and clarity.
Week 9: Redefining Love & Relationships
You’ll feel clear on what you want, free from past baggage, and ready to attract or build meaningful relationships with confidence.
Week 10: Building Healthy Boundaries
You’ll feel empowered to say NO, recognize what you truly deserve, and create relationships that support—not drain—you.
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Week 11: Designing a New Chapter
You’ll walk away with a clear vision for your next chapter, a plan to step into your most powerful self, and a renewed sense of excitement for the future.
Week 12: Your Breakthrough Moment
You’ll leave this program fully transformed, empowered, and in control of your future. This isn’t just the end of a relationship—it’s the beginning of the best version of YOU.
This isn’t just a group program; it’s a roadmap for transformation. Each week, you’ll leave with actionable tools, powerful insights, and the confidence to create a life you love.
sign upWhy This group program Works
The Breakthrough Experience isn’t just about theory—it’s about taking real, actionable steps to transform your life. This program is designed to guide you through the toughest parts of your breakup journey with proven strategies, practical tools, and a supportive community to keep you moving forward.
It’s Personalized to You
Every breakup is different, and this program helps you address your unique challenges, emotions, and goals.
It’s Rooted in Real Life
Developed by John Kim, who has lived through heartbreak and guided thousands of people just like you, this program is grounded in real-world experience and proven results.
It’s Actionable
You’ll get step-by-step guidance, tactical exercises, and practical tools you can use immediately to create change.
It’s Empowering
This program is about more than healing—it’s about rediscovering your power, building confidence, and designing a future you’re excited about.
It’s Supported
With live coaching from John and a community of like-minded individuals, you’ll never feel alone on your journey.
This program isn’t about staying stuck in the pain—it’s about moving through it and coming out stronger, more confident, and ready to embrace what’s next.
Are you ready to break through?
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Meet Your Guide - John Kim
I’m not your traditional therapist—I’m real, raw, and relatable. I’ve been in the trenches of heartbreak, and I’ve walked the path of rebuilding after it feels like everything has fallen apart. My own painful divorce was the start of a journey that transformed my life, and now I’ve dedicated myself to helping others do the same.
As a licensed therapist and best-selling author of Single on Purpose and Break Up on Purpose, I’ve spent over 15 years guiding people just like you to turn heartbreak into breakthroughs. My approach is candid and no-BS, because I believe in cutting through the noise to get to what really matters: helping you rediscover your confidence, set healthier boundaries, and build a life you love.
Why work with me?
It’s Personalized to You
I’ve helped thousands of people transform their relationships with themselves and others.
Books & coaching programs
My books and coaching programs have changed how people think about self-worth and healing.
I’ve been there myself
I understand what it means to feel stuck and lost after a breakup because I’ve been there myself.
Strategies that actually work
I’m passionate about giving you tools and strategies that actually work, ones you can use right away to see real results.
Breakups aren’t just endings—they’re powerful opportunities for growth, clarity, and transformation. With The Breakthrough Experience, I’ll be right there with you, guiding you step-by-step through a proven process to heal, rediscover your worth, and design a future you’re excited about.
This is your moment, and I’d be honored to help you take the first step toward the life you deserve. Let’s do this together.
Ready to Transform Your Breakup Into a Breakthrough?
If you’re tired of feeling stuck, replaying painful memories, and wondering if you’ll ever truly heal, this is your moment to take action.
The Breakthrough Experience is your opportunity to:
Release the paint
Process and release the pain of your breakup with clarity and confidence.
Break yourself free
Break free from unhealthy patterns & self-doubt. Redefine love & relationships on your terms.
Rebuild your confidence
Rebuild your confidence and create a life you’re excited about.
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Join a community
Join a community of like-minded individuals who are on the same journey.
Ready to Begin Your Breakthrough?
Join the 12-week guided experience and turn your heartbreak into your greatest breakthrough. Get weekly live coaching, a structured healing framework, and a powerful community to support your transformation.
Weekly Live Coaching Calls for expert guidance
Step-by-Step Healing Framework based on proven strategies
Private Community for accountability & support
Practical Tools & Exercises for real, lasting change
Want to Learn More Before Committing?
Not sure if this is the right fit? Schedule a free call with our team of therapists and coaches. We’ll walk you through the program, answer your questions, and help you decide if this is the best step for your healing journey.
Get a breakdown of the 12-week transformation process.
Discuss your goals and challenges with a coach.
Find out if this program aligns with what you need right now.
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