Single on purpose school
A 6-week program to transform your relationship with yourself and build a life you love — on your terms.
You’re not broken. You’re just single.
And that’s not a problem.
It’s your opportunity.
Most people treat singlehood like a waiting room.
Waiting to be chosen. Waiting to be complete.
Waiting to start their “real” life.
Flip the script
This isn’t about swiping harder or reading more relationship books.
This is about looking in the mirror and saying: “I choose me”
Meet John Kim
I used to think love would fix everything.
Then I got married. Got divorced.
Sat in a car for hours with no music, no answers, and a feeling I couldn’t shake:
I didn’t know who I was without someone else.
That moment wrecked me — and woke me up.
It forced me to go inward. To strip everything down and rebuild.
Not to become better for someone else… but to finally come home to myself.
That’s where Single On Purpose was born.
From the fire. From the therapy room. From the gym. From heartbreak.
From the truth that being single isn’t a punishment — it’s a f*cking invitation.
I created Single on purpose school to walk with you through that same process.
Because I know what it’s like to feel lost. And I also know how good it feels to be found — by you.
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Who This Is (and Isn’t) For
This is for you if…
You’re tired of defining your worth by your relationship status.
You want to stop settling, spiraling, or chasing the same patterns.
You’re ready to reconnect with yourself — not just “find someone.”
You want to feel confident in your skin, in your choices, and in your solitude.
You’re willing to do the work — journal, reflect, go inward, and show up.
You’re not here for fluff. You’re here for growth. This is your next chapter — and it starts with you.
This is not for you if…
You’re looking for dating hacks or ways to “attract the one.”
You want someone to rescue you or give you a checklist for healing.
You’re not ready to get honest with yourself — yet.
You still think being single means something’s wrong with you.
You’re hoping to skip the inner work and still feel whole.
This program won’t save you
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But it will show you how to save yourself.
Real Talk
Most people don’t know how to be alone.
They fill the space.
They chase distraction.
They confuse validation for connection.
But being alone doesn’t mean being lonely. It means facing yourself — and building something real, from the inside out.
I know what you’ve tried
Jumping into the next “maybe this will be the one” relationship
Telling yourself you're fine, while secretly numbing out
Keeping busy to avoid the ache
Doing all the “self-care” stuff that never actually hits
Let’s do something different. Something that actually sticks.
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Your 6-Week Journey Inside Single on purpose school
This isn’t about theory. It’s a step-by-step process to help you come home to yourself — with intention, action, and a little bit of soul.
Each week, we go deep:
The Shift
Start by breaking the myth that being single means being incomplete. You’ll reframe your relationship status as a conscious choice, not a condition to fix — and start building from wholeness, not lack.
Reconnection
Before you were someone’s partner, you were you. This week is about rediscovering that person — the one who felt alive riding bikes, blasting music, or eating pancakes alone at midnight. We’ll reconnect with what makes you feel most like yourself.
Relationship with Self
This week, you become your own anchor. You’ll build rituals of care, trust, and attention — not just to feel better, but to show up for yourself in the ways you've always wanted someone else to. Spoiler: This is where the real magic starts.
Breaking Patterns
It’s time to take inventory. We’ll get brutally honest about the patterns you keep repeating — emotional addictions, codependency, rushing in, or staying too long. Then we cut the cord — with love, clarity, and a goodbye letter that sets you free.
Nourishment
Being whole requires energy. This week, we rebuild your engine — through movement, mindfulness, and intention. You’ll tune into what you need physically, emotionally, and spiritually — and start giving it to yourself, consistently.
The New You
This is your moment. The version of you who no longer defines life by who’s beside them, but by how alive they feel in their own skin. You’ll create a vision for the road ahead — & walk into it whole, grounded, and unapologetically single on purpose.
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What You Get in This 6 Week Program
Weekly Coaching Lessons
Each week, you'll dive deep into proven methods and actionable steps to reconnect with yourself, break patterns, and heal.
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Guided Journal Prompts
Reflect and gain clarity on your journey with powerful prompts that help you uncover what's really holding you back.
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Soulful Solo Practices and Rituals
Nourishing, intentional practices that strengthen your mind, body, and soul.
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Access to the Single On Purpose Community
Connect with others who are on the same journey and support each other in real-time.
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A Step-by-Step Path to Wholeness
A structured program to guide you from emotional turmoil to self-empowerment and inner peace.
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A Clear, Thriving Future
End the cycle of waiting and start creating the life you want — whether or not a partner is involved.
What You’ll Walk Away With
This isn’t just about feeling better — it’s about becoming someone who moves differently in the world.
Here’s what happens when you do the real work of choosing yourself:
A deeper relationship with yourself
No more asking, “Why wasn’t I enough?” You’ll build trust, self-respect, and the ability to stand solid — even in the quiet moments.
Rituals that restore you
We’ll replace the performative “self-care” checklist with real, nourishing practices that refill your tank — body, mind, and soul.
A future vision that’s yours
You’ll stop living for someday. You’ll start building a life that excites you now — with purpose, people, & passion beyond romance.
Tools to move through loneliness, triggers, and doubt
You’ll learn how to handle the hard days without spiraling. Emotional tools that ground you — not quick fixes that numb you.
The end of chasing love to feel worthy
No more waiting for a partner to validate your life. You’ll know who you are, what you want, & that your life is already meaningful — whether someone joins you in it or not.
Join Single on purpose school
Investment
The full 6-week program is only $997 (or three payments of $333) — for everything you’ll gain in confidence, empowerment, and self-love, this is a small price to pay to stop waiting for your life to happen.
Start Date & Call Schedule
The program kicks off Wednesday, July 9th, from 5pm to 7pm PT.
Weekly process group sessions will continue for 6 weeks, on Wednesdays at the same time. These sessions are led by John Kim and focused on accountability & community.
There will also be bonus calls once a week, led by guest experts and coaches specializing in relationships, attachment theory, breathwork, and more.
Ready to Stop Waiting and Start Living?
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You don’t need another app.
You don’t need another situationship.
You need a mirror, a map, and a little bit of grit.
Single on purpose school is that map.
A 6-week guided process to finally stop chasing love — and start building a life you actually love.
You’ll get:
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Weekly lessons and journal prompts
Soulful solo practices and rituals
A step-by-step path to wholeness
Access to the Single On Purpose community
A future vision that’s yours — not dependent on anyone else
This is your life. Are you ready to choose it?
Join Single on purpose schoolP.S. Don’t sleep on this.
This isn’t the kind of program you can put on the shelf and pick up when you’re “ready.”
It’s not about perfect timing. It’s about choosing to take action, now.
I’ve seen what happens when you keep waiting for the perfect moment — you stay stuck.
You stay in the waiting room.
And life passes you by.
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But if you choose today? You’ll look back and realize this was the moment you decided to show up — not just for another relationship, but for yourself.
Spots are limited.
This program won't run again for months.
If you're ready to stop surviving & start thriving — take the step now.
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