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Love Hard. On Purpose

Toss the Blueprints. Build Something Honest.
Every breakup is a transformation. A breaking down and breaking through to a new version of who you are now, after you have severed ties. Nothing will change you like a broken heart. Yet every breakup is different.
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Daily Texts, Voice Notes, Exclusive Content, and a group of people doing this work alongside you.

ABOUT THE BOOK

I've been through a marriage, a divorce, multiple long-term relationships, a handful of things I don't have a clean category for, and now a seven-year partnership with a shared mailbox and a kid.

I've built myself a life. I've spent nearly twenty years working with clients on this stuff in therapy rooms, on retreats, in DMs at midnight from people who just found out they've been cheated on and don't know what to do.

‍And here's what I keep seeing. Over and over People aren't failing at love.

They're succeeding at following a broken blueprint.

‍They're building from plans they inherited before they were old enough to question them. Their parents relationship. What movies told them. What "serious" looks like. What "real love" is supposed to feel like which for a lot of us was chaos, because chaos was what we grew up in and the nervous system reads familiar as safe.

‍So we build. And we wonder why it keeps falling apart. And we decide something is wrong with us.

‍Nothing is wrong with you. The blueprint is wrong. And nobody ever showed you a different one. Love Hard. On Purpose is that different one.

‍This isn't a book about finding love. It's a book about becoming someone who can actually build it.
*Releases June 9, 2026

Pre-order bonus:
come into the room.

Pe-order the book and get lifetime access to On Purpose a private WhatsApp space where I actually show up.

Daily Texts, Voice Notes, Exclusive Content, and a group of people doing this work alongside you.
Get the book. Get into the room. People have breakthroughs all the time. They read something. They hear something. Something shifts. And then they go back to their lives, completely alone with that shift—no one around them doing the same work, no one to process it with—and slowly the old patterns creep back in. The insight fades. Nothing actually changes. That's the gap I wanted to close with this community. Pre-order Love Hard.

On Purpose, and you get lifetime access to On Purpose—a private WhatsApp space for people who pre-ordered this book and are actually trying to do this differently. Not just read about it. Do it. I'll be in there. Not on a schedule, not with a lesson plan. But when something's worth sharing—something that didn't make it into the book, something from my own relationship, something I'm sitting with—I'll drop a voice note. Unedited. Probably recorded on a walk or from my car. Beyond that, the community has three dedicated spaces so you can find people at the same stage as you:

Awakening—you're in the "oh shit" phase. Seeing your blueprints for the first time, naming the patterns, having the realizations that are equal parts liberating and uncomfortable.

Deep Work—you know your patterns and you're actively trying to change them. Doing the work between relationships or inside one that's being tested

Build Together—you're in a relationship and trying to build something different. Co-creating the new model in real time, day by day, with a partner.

Lifetime access. No expiry. No upsell. No catch. It comes with your pre-order. Because rebuilding takes longer than reading. And you shouldn't have to do it alone

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Releases June 9, 2026
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